Traveling with Your Kids: Chaos, Joy, and Everything in Between!
Written by: Brandi Salters
Long before we had kids, I discovered my passion for traveling. I grew up with a suitcase in hand, and that love for adventure carried right into my 20s and beyond. My husband and I were fortunate to experience “destination dating” throughout our relationship—exploring new places during our courtship and engagement. After tying the knot, we started a fun tradition we call 'anniversary month'—a series of mini weekend getaways leading up to one big celebratory trip.
Looking back, I realize those trips were more than just getaways—they were a glimpse into how each of us handled unfamiliar environments. Traveling really gives you a sneak peek into someone’s true character. So naturally, when we became parents, we started to wonder how travel would evolve with little ones in the mix. Spoiler alert: It definitely changed, but we’ve grown to love it even more.
Now that we’re in the thick of family travel, I’ll be the first to say—it’s a lot of work. Like, a lot a lot.
But it’s also 100% worth it every single time.
If you’ve ever stared at a calendar, a packing list, and a crying toddler or an impatient teen all at once and thought, “Why am I doing this?”—you’re not alone. But trust me, family travel can be magical, memorable, and even (dare I say) enjoyable. It just takes some planning, flexibility, and a sense of humor. Here’s how we make it work:
1. Plan Ahead (Especially for Air Travel)
Give yourself (and your kids) plenty of time. If you’re flying, arrive early—especially at larger airports like Atlanta, where security lines can be unpredictable. My husband is the “let’s get there when the plane is taking off” type, and while that might’ve worked pre-kids, it’s a recipe for chaos now.
If you’re driving, we prefer to hit the road super early—while the kids are still snoozing. This helps cut down on boredom and snack-related mutinies.
2. Food, Snacks & Entertainment – Pack Like a Pro
No matter the mode of travel, always bring food and entertainment. I prep individual snack packs and meals for each child so we’re not constantly stopping or fielding “I’m hungry” complaints.
As for entertainment? Think activity books, card games, tablets with headphones, and their favorite comfort items. A busy kid is a happy traveler.
3. Let the Kids Help Plan
One of my favorite ways to build excitement is by involving the kids in the planning process. My oldest loves to research attractions and activities, and I encourage him to include his sister in the process. It’s fun to see what they come up with, and it makes them feel invested in the trip.
4. Don’t Overpack (Trust Me)
This one is tough—I’m definitely guilty. But the more you pack, the more you have to manage. Stick to the essentials, and remember: most things can be bought at your destination if needed.
Also, always bring a small travel medicine kit. We’ve dealt with everything from pink eye to unexpected colds while abroad. A few basics—pain relievers, allergy meds, eye drops—can save the day.
5. Talk About Safety
Before every trip, we have a “travel safety talk.” We go over the importance of staying close, what to do if they get separated from us, and being aware of their surroundings. These guidelines give both kids and parents peace of mind.
6. Flexibility is Key
Even with the best-laid plans, things happen. Flights get delayed, kids melt down, and weather changes. Flexibility is essential. Sometimes the most unplanned moments end up being the most memorable.
7. Remember Why You’re Doing This
It might not always be smooth sailing, but traveling with kids opens their eyes to a bigger world. They ask questions. They explore. They grow in ways you can't replicate at home.
So whether it’s a day trip, a weekend getaway, or a full-blown international adventure, know that you’re giving them something invaluable. And yes—it does get easier as they get older.
Final Thoughts
Traveling as a family isn’t always glamorous. There will be spills, delays, and the occasional “are we there yet?” meltdown. But there will also be laughter, bonding, and lifelong memories.
This is just scratching the surface—I can’t wait to dive deeper into this topic in an upcoming podcast episode! Stay tuned for more tips, funny stories, and travel inspiration.
Until then, happy travels—cows and all.
